I've been wanting to write this for a long time and finally after last night, I've the much needed inspiration to write this.
Like the title reads, girlfriend and her friends. This post will be about those guys out there that is going after a girl or just kick off with your new chicka.
Well, the point of this post is to tell you male population the importance of YOU creating a good and positive vibe with your girlfriend's chickas.
Many of the male population ask their female friends (constantly) one of the question below, few of them or all :
Why can't I get a girlfriend?
Why she won't like me?
What did i do wrong?
What did i not do?
Why did she dumped me?
Bla bla bla.....the list goes on, you get the idea.
Well the truth is, 40-70% of you NOT getting the girl you want goes to how you fair in front of her girlfriends.
Well, most girls have their own 'clan' or 'groupie'...
And the members of a girl's clan/groupie is almost like her parents, less stressful but much more punch.
Much more punch as in the percentage of you getting the girl or being with the girl for a long time. Why?
Cause her friends aka clan aka groupie plays a majorrrrrr influence on the guy they want her to be with. And you can be ignorant be saying to yourself, my girl if she love me she won't care what her friends think of me or something similar, YET, conscience bites. You wait, you wait.
I've my very own clan as well, me and my clan go way back, six years, six of us. Ok, this is not bout me, back to the topic, so yea, a girl's girlfriends are very very important.
Through the years, i've notice a couple of major mistakes you male population make in front of the girl's girlfriends. And here is the list in no particular order :
1. Keeping quiet. Till you turn invisible. *poof*
2. Talking non stop about yourself :
"I've 6 cats 4 dogs and a canary. But i love my canary most.....bla bla bla bla....."
3. Making a total fool of yourself.
Example : Running about the club screaming, "Polis mari polis mari" in English : "police raid police raid"
4. Telling tons of 18SX jokes.
I don't freaking care if it's funny or not, just plain wrong.
5. Just being plain L-A-M-E!
6. Being intimate with her.
Fondling, frenchies and lalala. total gross. get a room!
7. Asking questions and making statements that makes you sound like your parents!
"So you got how many A's for your SPM?"
Or
"Oh you study accounting, good good very good prospect can earn a lot of money."
8. Flirting with Her girlfriends. HELLO???
9. Making fun of Her, in front of Her girlfriends. Totally NOT cool.
10. NOT dressing up.
Come on la, first impression very important ok! I don't care you ManU fan, Arsenal fan or what ever. Don't wear your jersey, save it for football matches with your buds!
OR If you HAVE TO wear a jersey make sure not faded and look like salted vegetable?
And match it with a nice jeans/pants/ surfer pants with shoes (leather or not) or a nice pair of sandals not those 'selipar jepun'. Depends also the place you are going laaaa...
Don't need say everything right? = =
Tadaaa. 10 points. I could go on but those are major ones!
Major turn offs.
And another thing, IF you can afford to foot the bill, DO foot the bill. Especially during the FIRST time She is bringing You to meet her girlfriends. Even if not the whole bill, pay Her bill! If you can't even afford to pay Her share,
So, after the 10 major turn offs, many would be asking, What should I do then?
My answer, when she brings you to meet Her girlfriends, that means you are one step away from joy or sorrow. To summarize, here is what you need to do in three sentences:
1) Imagine she is bringing you to meet her parents.
2) Ask yourself how much you love that girl?
3) Be Yourself!
Do understand, the above three steps is not fool proof.
OR 100% works and I won't be liable to anything or anyone that follow those steps.
Trial and error. OR you are just not meant to be with her.
To conclude, be nice to Her girlfriends or
*evil laugh*